At some point, even the nice ladies who feel sympathy for Bullock for getting cheated on (and who doesn't feel sympathy for someone who discovers their husband is a lying sack of shit?) are going to start asking themselves, "Shouldn't she have noticed?" I mean, it's not easy to hide affairs with a half-dozen people, but that happens, and Bullock is busy with her career and all, but shouldn't you notice that your husband really really seems to be into the Nazis?