okay, i'll accept the cocktail waitress critique to a degree. and agree that the best woman in the world could be a cocktail waitress, though i doubt it very seriously. what i'm wondering is why men of that stature (and it's not stature in my universe, btw) must date women who have neither the same good looks, money, power, cultural capital and connections that they do. why pick poor and obscure lovers so completely out of their own realm? when you could pick, let's just say, the most beautiful woman in the world with the best body? just to use a criterion that is reasonable when speaking of these guys?